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How To Be The Man Women Naturally Find
Attractive And Other Men Follow Like An Elder Brother...
Hello & Welcome!
Allow me to
introduce myself to you. My name is Shafin de Zane. I am the author of "Redefine Your Reality" and also a professional
hypnotist (yes a real one, not the kind on the stage making a mickey out of
people, but the kind that heals almost incurable and unusual mind problems).
If you haven't
heard of me before, you can see a bit of my
work and reputation here.
Now that the introduction is out of the way, allow me to tell you the
strange story of how it all changed for me...
This is the
incredible but true story of how a poor man from South Asia turned into an
internationally acclaimed author, changed over 100,000 lives around the
world, all within the span of mere 3
This is also
the story of how I ended up working with underground seduction gurus, world
famous relationship coaches and notorious pickup artists who specialize in
mind control methods so powerful, it would be declared illegal, if common
people knew about it.
This is a
story of magic, miracles and truths that are so strange, no fiction can
ever come close to it... This is the story of my awakening. And today I will share it
It all begins
on a warm summer evening back in 2004 when I got dumped in the most horrible
way by the girl I was then dating. Let’s call her Sue. I met Sue through a
common friend and instantly got smitten by her glamour and charm. She was
that woman who walks into a room and instantly all the men begin to
straighten up and tries to look macho and cool.
managed to seduce Sue with a combination of total milking-cow like behavior
and single minded focus on trying to impress her. For some reason she gave
in, BUT… she managed dictate the terms of the relationship in whatever way
that tickled her fancy.
be all nice to me, sometimes she’d sleepover at my place, sometimes she’d
flirt shamelessly with any guy she liked right in front of me, and sometimes
she would act like we are about to get married next week.
story short, since I was being the perfect weak wimpy wuss with lots of
money, I conveniently managed to lose nearly $100,000 in less than 7 months
time I was with Sue and wreck my own business too.
I believe I
would still ruin my life even more unless Sue decided one evening to make
out with a guy in the middle of a club right in front of me. Even for the
wuss that I was back then, it was too much to take. I tried to force her
into leaving the guy and she did what all self respecting woman should do:
she dumped me right in front of all my friends, and went home with the other
devastated, to say the least. I was heartbroken, my bank account was a wreck
and I never felt more humiliated in my life. Yet as it is one of my
strongest qualities, whenever something bad happens, I stop to ask what is
it about me that caused this situation to occur?
I kept asking
that question and although no blinding flash of insight came, over the next
couple of months I found certain teachers to start a journey that would
change my life forever.
When You Got Nothing More To Lose,
Can Suddenly Make A U-Turn
teacher I met was a man who went by the name Jack Strange. If there was a
true science of how to seduce women, this man would be a Nobel Prize winner,
no doubt. He was a mad scientist cum Casanova who single handedly created an
underground community that focused on one thing: how to get laid.
Over the next 2
years or so under the tutelage of Strange, I learned techniques and mind
control methods that would appear like magic in the eyes of an ordinary man.
In matter of
few months from the day I got dumped by Sue, I was dating 4 different women
at the same time. Almost overnight I became one those guys who are not only
known by all the bouncers because he walks in with different women every
night, but even the club owners knew me, since I frequented their joints so
often. It was an amazing time and now that I look back at it... totally
What I didn’t
realize back then is that I had a really low self esteem and this entire
seducing one woman after the other was nothing but me trying to hide from
the pain within that haunted me day and night.
of these relationships stuck as the women felt used like objects and I
imagine I was too superficial and self absorbed for anything meaningful.
As the days
passed, I was getting even more unfulfilled than the day before, until I met
Sara was a girl
who was totally unlike any of the other women I was dating at the time. She
was sweet, sensitive, caring, with a wicked sense of humor. We got along
really well and for the first time since that Sue episode I the bar, I felt
that I could fall in love again.
going really great until one day Sara and I went to this club where I
frequented a lot. We were hanging out having fun when this woman I went out
with for a couple of days came and said hello to me. I said hello back being
all nice and friendly and introduced Sara to her as my girlfriend. What she
said in return is something I’ll never forget.
In a bitchy
voice, she said “Oh, this is your chick of the week huh?”
The look on
Sara’s face was so painful that I couldn’t even speak to her. We walked out
of the bar and I never heard back from her. In an email she sent me later
explained she didn’t want to be emotionally committed to someone who had a
reputation as mine.
I was so
embarrassed that I didn’t even try to explain my side of the story, which
would be pretty lame to begin with. However this episode seriously made me
question the purpose of this entire exercise of seducing one woman after the
Why was I doing
this? I was obviously not getting happier. I was drinking more than ever. I
couldn’t keep any of the women I dated and I got a reputation that no
descent women wanted to be a part of. So what was the point of this Casanova
Once again I
began searching inwards. I stopped going out every night, stopped taking
calls from the women who wanted to go out with me, stopped drinking and
stopped hanging out with friends whose lives revolved around those things. I
knew no lasting happiness or fulfillment could come from this road and I had
to get out of it as soon as possible.
What An Enormous Tapestry Of Events
Connect The Birth Of A Single Action That Changes Thousands Of Lives...
In the winter
of 2005, I met my teacher in the world of hypnotherapy, Cal Banyan, and my whole world
turned upside down. Through the process of self hypnosis and in my journey
of getting a professional license in hypnotherapy, I went through the
biggest healing period of my life.
The process was
tremendously painful and on and off lasted more than 6 months time, during
which time I ran away, came back, ran away again and so on. Yet by the end
of the healing process, the person that emerged from inside me was so
different that I couldn’t even recognize myself!
deep within me, the very need to smoke, drink, party all night and
surround myself with many women all the time had just disappeared.
I never said
“Okay I quit smoking”. I never promised to anyone that I’d never drink
again. I very well did not say “I’m not going to date women anymore and turn
into a monk.”
Nothing of the
sort happened yet somehow I just didn’t feel like indulging in any of those
any more. The only thing I entirely quit was smoking and never touched a
cigarette again. I stopped drinking regularly and only had an occasional
drink when I was celebrating something. And I began a relationship sometime
around the summer of 2006 who I am still with till today.
In the next few
years, I embarked upon the greatest adventure of my life. Many teachers
arrived, I wrote my book Redefine Your Reality, taught tens of
thousands of people around the world on inner healing and personal success,
created a simple lifestyle of freedom and pursuit for knowledge, and finally
devoted myself entirely in the field of spiritual awakening.
Little did I
know that life has some other plans with me and I’d have to make a full
circle back to where I started, before this story made complete sense. What
an enormous tapestry of events connect the birth of a single action that
changes thousands of lives!
(If you want to
know the full story of what happened next and what brought me here today,
you can sign up for the free video course
Psychology Of Attraction where I cover the whole story. But it’s
not necessary for now.)
reason I just told you the story is to make sure you understand that my own
journey has been anything but smooth. I know how it feels to be dumped in
the most humiliating way, I know how it feels like making the dumbest of the
mistakes with women, I have seen the underground worlds pickup artists,
professional seducers, people who practice covert mind control methods, and
I can tell you this quite frankly…
There is a
much better way!
If you are in a part of life where you need to prove your masculinity to
others by getting laid every night with a different woman, this is probably
not the right program for you.
But if you wish to awaken the inner man who is not only magnetically
attractive to the right kind of women, but also a leader of men who is
followed by other men like an elder brother, this is the right place for
This program will turn you into that man who, in a relationship, naturally
gets total devotion, admiration and respect not only from his own intimate
partner, but also her friends and family.
Rejection, loneliness and fear of losing her to the other guy will be a
thing of yesterday, a memory from the distant past. On this new journey, you
will become a Hero on a mission.
A magnetically attractive man!
if you think this is the right program for you, let us move forward…
What If You
Could Magnetically Attract The RIGHT Women Towards You
Almost Magically, Without Effort, Just By Being Your Most
Here To Find Out How To Become THAT Man...
all the dragons in our lives are princesses who are only
waiting to see us act, just once, with beauty and
everything that frightens us is, in its deepest essence,
something helpless that wants our love.”
~ Rainer Maria Rilke